Being served with a protective order is a stressful experience, but it’s crucial to remain calm and avoid any actions that could be misconstrued as threatening or harassing. Here’s what you should do:
- Don’t Panic: Take a deep breath and remind yourself that you have the right to defend yourself against false accusations.
- Consult an Attorney Immediately: This is not a situation you should handle on your own. A lawyer specializing in family law or criminal defense can advise you on your rights and develop a strategy for fighting the allegations.
- Comply with the Order (Initially): Even if you believe the order is based on lies, it’s essential to comply with its terms until you can challenge it in court. Violating the order, even unintentionally, can lead to serious legal consequences.
- Gather Evidence: Work with your attorney to gather evidence that supports your defense. This might include the documentation you’ve already compiled, as well as additional evidence such as police reports, medical records, or expert testimony.
- Prepare for the Hearing: Your attorney will help you prepare for the hearing, where the judge will decide whether to make the protective order permanent. This might involve preparing a statement, gathering witnesses, and developing a legal strategy.
- Exercise Your Right to Remain Silent: Do not speak to the person who filed the protective order or anyone acting on their behalf, except through your attorney. Anything you say can be used against you in court.
- Avoid Social Media: Refrain from posting anything on social media that could be construed as threatening, harassing, or retaliatory. Even seemingly innocuous posts can be taken out of context and used against you.
